Mark David Fey was my Dad.
He came from rural Oregon, raised by austere Calvinists who didn’t talk at the dinner table. They thought christ would have returned by now.
His father was a railroad worker, and then a farmer. My grandfather was a man of few words and no hugs.
As a young man Mark was a powder monkey for a blasting road crew and liked explosives.
My dad was a hard worker who tried to do right by people.
He was a missionary to indigenous people in Alaska.
He was a truck driver.
He was a longshoreman.
He was an evangelist to hippies and married one of the born-agains, Janice James, the mother of my brother Rick and I.
Before going into the ministry full time, he was a school teacher and a summertime lumber jack at Mount Rainier. We painted houses together to make ends meet.
He was a spiritual artist.
My Dad loved capturing the beauty of nature with his cameras. It was a fortunate honor that he let my little legs follow his. He brought me, carrying his camera equipment, to the most rugged natural places in the Western States. His heavy Nikon F1 camera captured the complexity and power of nature. We met magical mountain goats together, we slept among herds of elk, and avoided disturbing the bears. We traveled and slept in his pickup truck.
In his artistic ministry, he showed his slides in tiny rural churches for free, and negotiated shows in the big chain churches.
He showed his visions of god in nature to those who could not get close to wild nature themselves.
Back at home, we grew our food in the rich earth of the Puyallup Valley. He taught me where natural healthy food comes from. I thank him for showing me my connection to the earth.
Dad made bold choices to live by his visions and not be held back by those who did not share them. He ministered to those who shared his love of god and he served his community.
Now my Dad returns to the earth he revered and taught me to respect.
Goodbye Dad. I have missed you a long time. And I will miss you until I join you in the soil.
Goodbye and thank you for taking care of a weird little kid.
Thank you for showing me the beauty of creation.

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